January 15, 2025
But let justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.
Amos 5:24
“Wanna meet some new friends at church?” My four year old’s eyes lit up. “Yes! Who are they?!” I explained that some of our friends don’t have houses and when it’s cold, they need somewhere safe and warm to sleep, so we open up the church during the winter and they come stay overnight. We make them dinner and do laundry and give them beds and wash their feet. “Like when I get a bath?” I told him it was exactly like that.
So we headed to church and found our friends just after dinner. Some were watching TV and some were getting their feet washed. Some of the men told us jokes. And he laughed and ran laps around the room. At that, they laughed. There’s just something about the reckless abandon of a child in a Grinch sweatsuit racing around the room and stopping to tell incomplete knock knock jokes. I think it’s intimidating for most of us to find ways to engage in ministries of justice or introduce our children to serving others. And yet, there are so many opportunities in our communities and churches to do that, and to bring our children with us to learn.
My older boys have all had years of experience serving vulnerable people in need. They will never be afraid to roll up their sleeves and help. I hope that if you’ve never served a meal, stocked a food pantry, tutored a child, or washed someone’s feet, that you’ll come join us in that work, and you’ll bring your kids with you to do it. This weekend is the Martin Luther King Jr. observance, and I hope you’ll consider honoring his life’s work and legacy by finding worthy work to serve others and seek justice.
Prayer
Lord, help me to be a servant and example to the children in my life, with the eagerness children make friends. Amen.
January 8, 2025
I lift up my eyes to the hills—
from where will my help come?
My help comes from the Lord,
who made heaven and earth.
Psalm 121:1-2
This Sunday during the children’s message, our Christian educator asked the children, “How do we see God?” She gives the children a great deal of confidence to respond and be creative, so there were immediate and overlapping answers. But the first answer to ring out was one little girl exclaiming, “Look up!” Others went on to say all around them and in other people. But the wonder and certainty from the first little girl took me by surprise. As a pastor in the world, a Scout, and a disciple of Fred Rogers, I’ve been trained to see God in every single person I meet, in the helpers, and in the nature that surrounds me.
However, it’s easy to forget that life is balance. God is indeed in creation and God’s created children. And… God is above. Both literally, in the mountains peaks and stars above, the created universe… and spiritually. The reminder of Christmas is that the God above, the creator and sustainer came down to earth to be with us, and a teacher and redeemer. God among us was constantly living and loving all around us and remains with us, but prayed and pointed to and glorified a God who was over all. A God above the principalities and powers, death and division, borders and barriers, pettiness and sin and brokenness.
We follow a God who came to this world and remains in it by the Spirit, but also a God above the troubles of this world who calls and empowers us and in whom we can wonder and take joy and trust in. It helps to encourage us to be able to look around and see God. But when the world around us lets us down or discourages us, with the faith and wonder of a child, we can always look up.
Prayer
Lord, help to look around and find you in the people and places of your created world, and when I become discouraged, to remember to look up. Amen.
December 30, 2024
“I will write these final words of this letter with my own hand: if anyone does not love the Lord, that person is cursed. Lord Jesus, come! May the love and favor of the Lord Jesus Christ rest upon you. My love to all of you, for we all belong to Christ Jesus.
Sincerely, Paul”
I Corinthians 16:21-24
“Jesus is coming. Look busy!”
Anonymous
“He taught Sunday school about 30 times a year.” I drove to GA this week, the home state of former president Jimmy Carter. The whole trip down, across a half dozen NPR stations, I listened to news coverage and interviews with the President, his family, cabinet members, and historians. But of all the things I heard that I knew or learned about him, that one quote from his grandson struck me the most deeply. I’ve spent nearly two decades in church work, and a significant amount of my time and energy has spent recruiting and training teachers. I don’t believe I’ve ever recruited a teacher to spend that many weeks in a Sunday school class or small group, and Jimmy Carter did it for decades. In fact, he relished it more than anything else he got to do in his 100 years.
It is my biggest professional regret that I lived for eight years down the road from his home church in Plains, GA and never carved out the time to make the short pilgrimage to hear him teach one Sunday morning. It bears the same name as the Dominican church and mission group I’ve worked with for years - Maranatha. The name comes from an Aramaic word found in I Corinthians, and translates to “our Lord comes,” or an invitation, “Our Lord, come.” Carter had a deep faith that guided his private and public life of service. He believed that God was real and present in the world and intended to serve others with humility and faithfulness, promising always to be truthful and never to shy from anything controversial.
In the coming days, a lot will be said about the accomplishments and failures of our former president, but I’m certain they will all mention his faith, his service, and that he is universally acclaimed as our finest former president. In the lull that follows the busy holiday season, it’s worth reflecting on someone who lived a century as a man who spent every moment of his life in service to others and building the kingdom on earth that he imagined in heaven. We do well to draw inspiration from the peanut farmers of our world who seek leadership as an opportunity to serve and establish justice. If we truly believe the Lord is coming, we’ve got a lot of work to do.
Prayer
Lord, come. Dwell among us, comfort and challenge us, and send us to serve. Amen.
December 11, 2024
Jeremiah 29:10-14
“It’s. So. Haaaaard. To. Wait.” My youngest son said. Each word deliberate and groaned with emphasis. This was his response when he asked if it was Christmas Day and I told him it was still weeks away. We don’t even have a tree yet. He was right. I can’t imagine what it was like for Mary, waiting on Joseph’s reaction to her pregnancy, her family’s reaction to their unfolding plans. I can’t imagine Joseph’s own journey of trust, being asked into this arrangement. His anxiety at their sudden departure as refugees to the land that enslaved his people, to keep his young family safe, with no reliable hope for employment but the lowest jobs no Egyptian wanted had to be deeply discouraging.
I think often of the long journey of the Magi that probably ended in Egypt, much farther than they initially anticipated. I’ve traversed the Sinai peninsula between Israel and Cairo. It’s an absolute wasteland. It’s no wonder God’s people wandered 40 years. It had to be so hard to wait. It was 12 years before they saw him begin to delve into his calling and maybe another 10-15 beyond that before beginning his ministry. It was a long wait for Mary and Joseph and Elizabeth and John, and all their expectant relatives and friends.
And yet, the promise in Jeremiah is an even longer wait. Those people were being told it would be decades before they would see relief and generations before the coming of their savior. But the promise is not that God will one day be faithful. The promise is that God remains faithful in the waiting, present and compassionate, wise and loving, and makes plans with us and for us. Waiting is hard, but we don’t do it alone. I tried to reassure my son that I find waiting hard too. And that we will wait together by stringing lights, reading God’s word, and hearing the ancient stories each day until the day is here. “And God will be watching us?” he asked. “Yes, watching and waiting and with us, I told him.” And that was enough for him. And in sharing that good news, it was for me too.
Prayer
Lord, it’s hard to wait. Wait with me. Help me to share the goodness of what it means to prepare and plan and wait together with others who feel alone. Amen.
December 2, 2024
The Lord your God is with you, mighty to save. God will take great delight in you, quiet you with love, and will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17
“I love you!” whispered the little one on the chancel steps. Our Director of Education for Children and Families didn’t hesitate - mid-sentence - to reply, “I love you too.” And then continued her children’s message last Sunday. The child had uttered the words with the urgency of any request for food or attention or a trip to the restroom. She was oblivious to the moment, the decorum, the focus, or a sanctuary full of adults and the crowd of children near the advent wreath. She had to express her love right then. And, thankfully, so did Miss Nancy.
How urgent is our love? In a season where we celebrate God coming into the world to be with us - Emmanuel means God with Us - we celebrate this urgent nature of God’s love for and among us. The angels interrupt the lives of Joseph and Mary in the midst of their engagement and life plans, amidst an arduous journey for the census. A host of them barge in on shepherds at work in the fields. The faithful magi interrupt the reign of Herod and the Roman Empire. “I love you,” whispers God - with urgency. And like the little one in our worship service, it’s an urgent invitation to hear and respond. Its importance overshadows the unfolding current events. It shifts the focus. It reminds us of priorities and relationships. It centers that love and the beloved.
It took me back to a concert years ago. A small child wandered up to the stage during my friend David’s performance. He paused mid-song to speak with the little one. He chuckled and said, “when someone under four feet asks for your attention, you drop whatever you’re doing. It’s a rule.” I never forgot it. Christmas is a holy interruption of urgent love that must be expressed, received, and returned. When a child interrupts the world with love, our hearts, minds, and souls must respond. This Advent, I encourage you to embrace the holy disruption of the Christ child and every child who bears wonder, curiosity, hope for connection, and the love that centers and redirects us. Maybe such interruptions reorient you to respond to such love with the same love that is offered in hope.
Prayer
Lord, make me receptive and responsive to urgent love with a full and ready heart. Amen.
November 28, 2024
Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.
I Peter 4:10
Keep my eyes to serve, my hands to learn
Mumford and Sons
One of my dearest friends from Colorado days makes her home between a few cities there. She visited a new church recently to worship with a friend. Many of the songs were unfamiliar to her. So, she didn’t know the tune, but the words were on the screen up front. In college, she studied American Sign Language. So, she told me, “I didn’t know the tune to sing, so I sang with my hands.”
Over and over, in recent weeks, I’ve heard people say how helpless they feel in the wake of hurricanes, school shootings, political upheaval, and war overseas. And yet, I’ve been inspired to see those same people gather relief supplies, learn about legislation and movements for positive change, pick up tools and build homes and showers, and get educated about conflict and peacemaking efforts. When the world feels overwhelming or unfamiliar, I’ve watched people respond with what they know, to sing with their hands.
This week, we will gather at table with the people we love and who have loved us, nurtured us, bestowed us with gifts and skills, and inspired us to our callings. We will give thanks for those people and gifts. It’s an opportunity to be reminded how God has given us the tools and wisdom to serve and help people in need. As we pause to reflect and thank God, we can be reminded we are equipped and called to a world in need. And when it feels like we are in unfamiliar territory, we are lost, hopeless, or ill-prepared, we can begin to sing with our hands.
Prayer
Lord, open my eyes, soften my heart, broaden my awareness, and unclench my hands to respond in faith with the gifts you’ve given me to sing into your world. Amen.
November 18, 2024
God will hear the cry of the poor and vulnerable, and one should not oppress them
Exodus 22:20-26
A portion of the harvest should be set aside for the poor and strangers
Leviticus 19:9-10
True worship is to care for the poor and oppressed, and to work for justice
Isaiah 58:5-7
The poor are blessed, and theirs is the kingdom of God
Luke 6:20-23
“Hey, Kevin.” Last weekend, I got to go back to one of my favorite places on earth, where I went to college in Chapel Hill. I’ve never been to a college reunion. However, my campus ministry, where I spent every single Thursday night for four years, hosted a reunion for everyone who’s ever been part of the campus ministry in the last several decades. At the Saturday afternoon, activities, and dinner and program that evening, I saw a lot of my old friends. Kevin was a Chapel Hill friend from 20 years ago. But Kevin wasn’t actually at that dinner.
Kevin is a homeless man that I met during my years at the university. My good friend Frank, from my campus ministry group, would go with me on weeknights in our college days and offer to take folks to dinner with us on Franklin Street, north of campus. Folks would panhandle for change, and Kevin was a regular. We got to know him well over our dinners. Kevin had a generous sister who provided him a couch, but she couldn’t afford to support him, and his mental health challenges kept him out of stable employment. So, he was perpetually unhoused and in need of food. He was kind and chatty, and always said yes to a meal with us. Twenty years later, he did remember me and our dinners… but his situation was the same.
If you had asked me in college if I had hopes that my state and nation would make progress toward housing or helping people like Kevin within ten years or twenty, I would have said yes. Jesus himself said the poor would always be with us. But he didn’t say the same people would always be poor or would have no hope. I shared my experience with my fellow campus ministry alum, who remembered our dinners. They were as disappointed and troubled as I was. Ordinarily, in my reflections, I try to offer a word of encouragement or a challenge we can all accept. Today, I’ll simply say this.
We’ve made monumental progress in technology, innovation, safety, health and science in the last twenty years. In the coming months and years, we must choose leaders, hold them accountable, and prioritize in our own lives, faith communities, and municipalities the care for the poor. Kevin is not the only person for whom nothing has changed under four presidents, three governors, and twenty classes of graduates from our nations’ universities. If your faith home has ministries to the homeless, do you participate? If there are opportunities to provide housing or advocate for it, are you supporting it? If families in your community need extra help at the holidays, are you a part of those efforts? Things may not be noticeably different in 2025 than they are now. But in twenty years, they must be.
Prayer
Lord, make me an instrument of humility in my listening and awareness. Transform me by what I learn and who I form relationships with, ready to work tirelessly for progress. Amen.
November 11, 2024
Some of them were persuaded and joined Paul and Silas, as did a great many of the devout Greeks and not a few of the leading women. But the [local Jewish Thessalonians] became jealous, and with the help of some ruffians in the marketplaces they formed a mob and set the city in an uproar. While they were searching for Paul and Silas to bring them out to the assembly, they attacked Jason’s house. When they could not find them, they dragged Jason and some brothers and sisters before the city authorities, shouting, “These people who have been turning the world upside down have come here also, and Jason has entertained them as guests. They are all acting contrary to the decrees of the emperor, saying that there is another king named Jesus.”
Acts 17: 4-7
I was reminded of this text when our pastor preached last week. It describes the events surrounding Paul’s visit to Thesalonica. Jason hosts Paul and Silas at his house while they preach the teachings of Jesus. Fearing the repercussions of this revolutionary message, the locals, who are occupied by Rome, turn on Paul, and even recruit “ruffians” to help them attack Jason’s house. Like the angry mob that demanded the crucifixion of Jesus, they side with the oppressive authoritarian regime, rather than those preaching the ancient message of justice and mercy from the prophets of their Lord.
What was Jason’s crime? Hospitality to the stranger, welcome to the refugee, and standing against the Emperor (not them). Paul isn’t bringing a new message. The teachings of Jesus are the words of the prophets of Israel, quoted and explained in parables, and lived out by example in his life, his advocacy for justice, and ministry of mercy. This is so dangerous to the status quo that they attack Paul’s entourage and their hosts. They would rather be agents of an authoritarian regime and its promises of peace and stability and economic certainty than to adhere to the commands and ethic of their faith. They willingly cling to loyalty to the emperor, rather than risk welcoming the sojourner in their land.
The story from scripture reminds us that hospitality and justice are prophetic calls to a life that is faithful and dangerous. Christ calls us to build a kingdom of peacemakers, vulnerable outcasts, and the tempest tossed. Empires are built on fear and enmity, threats and borders and barriers and violence. The world and our nation have troubling histories of a rejection of the prophetic message of hospitality.
We will always be faced with the challenge to open our homes, churches, and communities to those in need. Sometimes it’s a neighbor whose house burned down, sometimes 80 counties of displaced people who lost their homes to hurricane flooding. Sometimes it’s entire people groups fleeing political violence and economic collapse in their home country. And sometimes it’s a young family of three fleeing the brutality of a king who fears the prophecies of magi from the east. In the coming weeks of recovery for our state, the advent season, and changing powers that govern, will we be people of welcome and refuge like Jason? Or will we join the mob and ruffians who seek to ignore, attack, or expel the vulnerable?
Prayer
Lord, make me a mighty host like Jason, ready to embrace and show mercy, rather than succumb to fear. Amen.
Rev. Brian Daoust